Heather Thomson Husband: Who Is She Married To? (2026)

Heather Thomson is married to Jonathan Schindler, a New York real estate executive. The two wed on June 28, 2003, and have been married for more than two decades, raising two children together in New York. Unlike many of her Real Housewives of New York City castmates, Thomson's marriage stayed intact through her reality TV years, and she notably kept her own last name after marrying.

Who Is Jonathan Schindler?

Jonathan Schindler works in real estate and has largely stayed out of the reality TV spotlight. He appeared alongside Heather at public events—including the 9th Annual Big Apple Circus Benefit in New York City in December 2015—but never became a full-time cast member storyline the way some househusbands did. Friends of the show have described him as unfazed by his wife's take-charge personality, and he has supported her through her business ventures, including her shapewear company.

Marriage Timeline

Heather and Jonathan married on June 28, 2003. Their son Jax was born in 2004, followed by their daughter Ella Rae in 2007. The family is based in New York, and during Heather's time on RHONY, viewers saw the couple balancing marriage, parenting, and Heather's growing business. As of 2026, the pair remain married, with their children now young adults.

Children

Heather and Jonathan have two children: Jax Schindler (born 2004) and Ella Rae Schindler (born 2007). Heather has said she first got the idea for her Yummie shapewear line after having her children, when she found that existing shapewear was not comfortable or attractive enough. Both kids were teens during her later RHONY appearances.

Career Highlights

Before reality TV, Heather Thomson spent more than two decades in fashion as a designer and stylist. She worked with Jennifer Lopez, Beyoncé, and Sean "Diddy" Combs, serving as the founding Design Director for Combs's Sean John label, where she is credited as a significant force behind multiple CFDA award nominations.

She founded the shapewear brand Yummie Tummie in 2008, building it into a nationally recognized line before selling the company in 2020 (it was rebranded to Yummie). Thomson joined The Real Housewives of New York City in 2012 for season 5 and appeared through season 7, returning as a guest in seasons 8, 9, and 12 and as a "friend of the housewives" in season 13. Her tagline catchphrase—"holla"—became a fan favorite, and her on-air clashes included feuds with Ramona Singer and Aviva Drescher. She later launched the podcast In My Heart with Heather Thomson.

FAQ

Who is Heather Thomson's husband?

Jonathan Schindler, a New York real estate executive whom she married in 2003.

When did Heather Thomson get married?

Heather Thomson and Jonathan Schindler married on June 28, 2003.

Do Heather Thomson and Jonathan Schindler have kids?

Yes. They have two children: son Jax (born 2004) and daughter Ella Rae (born 2007).

What seasons of RHONY was Heather Thomson on?

She was a main cast member on seasons 5 through 7 (2012–2015), a guest in seasons 8, 9, and 12, and a friend of the cast in season 13.

Are Heather Thomson and her husband still married?

Yes. As of 2026, Heather Thomson and Jonathan Schindler remain married, more than 22 years after their wedding.